I’ve been speaking with a
family for about four months now about the possibility of adding non-medical
services which would allow Mom and Dad to stay in their much beloved home.
Everyone agrees that this is a necessary step however, no one is willing to
make that final decision. In the meantime, tensions
are rising. Mom and Dad are blue, stating “we’re waiting for this final passage
in our lives.” This could and should be a time to enjoy a round of golf, or two
and more with some planning. It saddens me to see
seniors facing each new day with such a bleak point of view. Yes, it’s true,
time is short, so, let’s make the most of it. How about focusing on maximizing each
day with vim & vigor? Let’s laugh until our sides hurt! Let’s plan that
game of golf, the lunch with friends, or a day of antiquing. The bottom line...don’t
hesitate to ask for help when each day is a burden, when chores seem
overwhelming, when the spark in life has gone out. Better yet, be proactive. Seek out a non-medical professional whom you trust
and whose company you enjoy. Then jump in with both feet and hire that person
to come over for an hour or two and you help garden, or with other chores. Ideally,
start building that relationship early on. Think of this as an investment in a
positive, bright future for yourself and for your entire family. Here’s to a making the
most of each day, Jane |
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